Why they visit us

What does that mean if someone dead appear on you dream .

People say its not good omen ? they Looking for partner ? Requesting something & etc
Is that so ? i took few minutes today just to find out whats it really about since i am getting only negative answers from everyone. I do usually had dream if had a good 5 hour sleep ;-)..Yes 5 hour is my max daily sleep whereby my mind will rest and if i had dream then the the idle time is limited here . I had a dream of my uncle who passed away last year 2 days ago . The dream was i went to my uncle's house and he cooked food for me and i eat that food ,the i left his house.That's all. Prawn sambal as what i can recognize it hehe . In real word my uncle was good cooker and the last day when he was alive he cooked as well before passed away peacefully . So what is this about , why he visit me . I believe many people have also visits from the dead in dreams but they might wont understand the actual reason of their appearance . There is, of course, no real scientific explanation for this except that you may have actually been contacted by the dead. Usually, these dreams may predict big events like a death, a birth, or a great failure or success as what i understand .So what the theory really about , i have few facts below to concrete my findings today :-

• being visited by the dead only indicates how much you miss that deceased individual. The dream would be a form of resolving your sorrow psychologically while you are asleep. It is a way the psyche comforts itself – by conjuring up an image of the beloved individual.
•  the dead do not necessarily want to be invited back to the earthly realms, but they become concerned about our emotional state. We literally use our energies to pull beings trying to ascend to the heavenly realms into the earthly planes. If you are being visited in a dream by a dead relative, it may be because you have somehow pulled them back to earth by not being able to “let go.”
• Usually represents an aspect of yourself based on their role in the family or your most honest feelings about them.
•  a dead relative may reflect your grief or feelings about their passing.
•  They are spirits who have not moved past the physical realm over into the afterlife. Many earthbound spirits remain present because they are still attached to the physical realm
• They need to have resolution from something in their recent life,
• They are looking for forgiveness
• or they are so bound to their material life
• They may have a message to offer you.
• They want to show you that there is life after death.
• Some souls do return as the dreamer’s spirit guides.

•  The dreamer’s desires to get back in touch with someone they loved; a need for comfort and strength from the person who has passed. Or the spirit may be appearing to reach out to the dreamer with a message of guidance. A deceased loved one may be bringing a much needed memory of the past or offering for the future in order for the dreamer to heal in the present.

And what do the food symbolize on the dream

• Eating some  (a little) of the dead people’s food: Will find a treasure.
• failing to eat or drink from anything given you in a dream by a dead person means you will lose money as much as you were given food and drink
• The reverse is also true. For taking something from the dead is a good augury; giving them something is bad, unless what was given by the dead was a biting reptile or crawling insect.
• The dead giving food to the dreamer: Honest gains from an unexpected source.

Sounds good rite , At first I was a bit anxious by getting bad feedback, but I realized and more clearer now, he is only visiting me because he have a message. I embrace the fact that he chose me to visit.